Wayman Gresham, a Florida dad has a message for all parents take to social media to humiliate their misbehaving children.

In the beginning of the video, Gresham is yelling at his son and says he is about to teach his son a lesson by shaving his head because “I’m not happy with him.”

Then Gresham does something surprising.  Instead of shaving his son’s hair, he gives him a hug.

“There’s no way in the world I would ever embarrass my son like that,” he says. “It doesn’t take all of that. Good parenting starts before he even gets to the point of being out of control.”